Fault

Who defines the definition of fault?  In my world, "a fault" is when there is something you do that is detrimental and you still do it, that is a fault of yours.  Another thing with fault is when you place blame upon someone for something they did.  Or you did yourself and you are faulting yourself.  That is what I do.  I 100% fault myself for my dads death.  Crazy right?  In my world, not so much.  The problem is, I don't know how to get past this.  It hurts and when I think about it, the fault, guilt, blame that I feel...well, you know it sucks.  It sucks really bad.  Some day I will type the story of fault up on here.  For today, this is my way of publicly admitting fault in my dads death. (No I didn't kill him, he died in a plane crash, read the blog!)